When I first qualified as a HypnoBirthingÂŽ practitioner I immediately phoned all my friends to find an expectant couple to practice on. The first was Annabel and her husband. Unfortunately they declined without giving me a reason. Later I discovered that Annabel had been worried that she would not be aware of her babyâs birth under hypnosis and I didnât get an opportunity to explain that this was not the case; she would if anything, be âhyperawareâ of the birth in her altered state of consciousness.
So my first couple was Catherine and Abe. They knew nothing about HypnoBirthingÂŽ but were up for some free education. They quickly recognized the value of the material they were being taught and embraced its tenets. Catherine diligently listened to the CD and they practiced the relaxation techniques. And letâs face it, deep relaxation exercises cannot be considered onerous in any way.
Catherine and Abe attended all four lessons they learnt about the history of childbirth and why it has come to be so painful over the centuries. How this has not been helped by the rise of medical intervention in birth in the twentieth century. They learned all about hypnosis, what it is and how it helps and, most importantly, how to do it. They also learnt practical facts about pregnancy and birth. Abe learnt his role in the birthing room.
Annabel had planned a waterbirth at home. Unfortunately things did not go well, she was taken to hospital by ambulance and after a fourteen hour labour was given an epidural and the baby was delivered by ventouse (where they help the baby out with a special suction cap). Annabel was deeply disappointed in her birthing experience, had been very frightened, and felt completely out of control of what was happening to her body.
Catherine planned to have the baby in hospital. The babyâs hand was trapped under his head and after fourteen hours an epidural was administered and the baby was delivered by ventouse. So on the face of it Annabel and Catherine had similar labours but their experiences were vastly different. Catherine was delighted with her experience and felt calm, in control and totally supported by the hospital staff throughout.
She writes:
âEven though I did not have birth without medical intervention I and my baby benefited from the HypnoBirthing techniques we practiced. I also knew that it was my decision to opt for the medical assistance that was offered me and had not been goaded into anything. I still felt positive at the end of my labour and was overjoyed when I saw my baby boy he was very alert at birth and is a very relaxed child.â The baby boy is the beautiful Dylan in the picture and he is a very calm baby indeed.
So while HypnoBirthingÂŽ can claim dramatically fast and easy childbirth experiences for some women; it also encompasses those births which may need extra help. The key is empowerment; couples feel knowledgeable, relaxed and in control, having strategies they can rely on.
For more information about HypnoBirthing, contact Teresa McCrone at The Apex Practice of Clinical Hypnotherapy 020 7467 8526 or 07941 058 737.
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